My Notes
Personal Reflection Guide
Take a few minutes to slow down: consider taking a few slow, deep breaths as you still yourself before God. Offer Him any burdens that you might be carrying today, inviting Him into this time. When you are ready, ask God to reveal to yourself the degree to which you feel worthy of love. What comes up for you as you consider this question? Bring that question before God, asking Him to speak into this. Are there any images or memories that come to mind as you consider God’s love for you? Next, consider any periods in your life where you may have wandered from His love. When did you find God pulling you out of a ditch, even one that you may have wandered into time and time again? Thank Him for his persistent love for you, regardless of circumstances or your level of faithfulness to Him. Finally, consider Jesus’ sacrifice on the cross. Imagine Him dying just for you and you alone. What thoughts and feelings come up for you as you consider this? Bring these before God, expressing these to Him. Allow God to speak into these thoughts and feelings. Close your time by thanking God for His abundant love for you, and ask Him for reminders of this love as you go throughout your week.
Discussion Questions
Choose a couple of the following questions from each section that best fit your group. Or, have everyone read the questions, choosing which one(s) from each section that they feel led to respond to.
- START HERE: Who was your first crush?
- START HERE: Think of a close friend, a family member, or a spouse; in what ways has your love for that person changed over time?
- START HERE: Have you ever been picked last to be on a team or weren’t invited to “the” party? What did that feel like?
- KEEP GOING: Do you feel worthy of the kind of love God has for you?
- KEEP GOING: Read Psalm 100:3-5 (NLT). Has there ever been a time, even now, when you felt like God’s love gave up on you?
- KEEP GOING: Read 1 John 1:4 (NLT). What must God feel and think about you since He gave His Son for you?
- KEEP GOING: What would you say to someone who is doubting God’s love for them?
- LIVE IT OUT: Read 1 Corinthians 13:7 (NLT) How different would your life look if you woke up every morning knowing you were loved like that?
- LIVE IT OUT: Read 1 Peter 4:8 (NLT) How can you respond in love this week to unloving people?
- LIVE IT OUT: What is a verse you could memorize this week to remind yourself that God loves you endlessly?