My Notes
Personal Reflection Guide
Take a few minutes to slow down, offering to Jesus any burdens from your day. Invite God into this time, asking Him to help you be real with yourself and Him right now. Consider how precious your life is to God. What feelings come up for you? What aspects of your life prevent you from seeing your life the way God sees your life? Ask God to show you how He sees your life, and how He sees its value. To what extent do you agree with God? Ask Him to help you see others the same way He sees them–even (and especially!) those you disagree or don’t connect with. Finally, ask God to show you any areas where you might be using your life to destroy rather than build. Where are your words, action or inaction leading to devaluing rather than valuing life? Confess these to God, asking Him to give you His vision for your life and show you how you can use your gifts and talents to serve Him in a more life-giving way. Thank God for this time together, writing your reflections in the space below and sharing with your group if you feel comfortable.
Discussion Questions
- START WITH SCRIPTURE: What does God have to say about: your worth? His attention to detail with humanity? How to live a full life? Have someone read Psalm 139 NLT, slowly and out loud (consider reading it twice). (NOTE: Even though the Psalmist talks about “hating God’s enemies”, he follows this up with a confession by asking God to search his heart, admitting that he may be wrong in his hatred.)
- REAL WITH OTHERS: If someone were to ask you, “How has following God made your life better?” how would you respond?
- REAL WITH SELF: Read Ephesians 5:16 NLT. Your life is precious and finite. If you were to dream a bit and could live your most impactful life for God, what would you do?
- REAL WITH GOD: When you consider how precious your life is to God, how does this knowledge combat your inner critic, your shame, guilt, depression, or anxiety?
- TAKE ACTION: Read Psalm 19:14 ESV. When you examine the nature of your words (whether spoken or posted on social media), what percentage of them are life-giving vs. tearing down? Are there any practical steps that could help you be more life-giving with your words (such as building people up, protecting those who need it, etc.)?