My Notes
Personal Reflection Guide
Go to a quiet place that will help you to become calm in your emotions and clear in your thinking. Ask God to help you do this. Take a few deep breaths. When you sense you are ready, commit the time to the Lord and ask Him to guide you. Reflect on the fact that Christmas is the celebration of the arrival of Jesus, the Prince of Peace. What are your thoughts and feelings that Jesus is the source of peace? Ask God to help you discern an area of your life in which you are not experiencing peace. Are you letting the peace of Christ rule your heart in this situation, or are you seeking peace through something else? What could you surrender in trust to God? Pray God would bring to mind another person in which you are not experiencing peace in your relationship with them. What makes this relationship challenging for you? Invite Jesus to enable you to live in greater peace with this person through forgiveness and grace. Ask God to impress upon you an action He wants you to take this week that will help you work for peace in your relationship with this person.
Discussion Questions
Choose a couple of the following questions from each section that best fit your group. Or have everyone read the questions, choosing which one(s) from each section they feel led to respond to.
- START HERE: What is a Christmas gift you couldn't wait to receive as a child?
- START HERE: On a scale of 1-10 (1 being very little and 10 being a lot), how much peace do you experience on a daily basis?
- START HERE: Why is it difficult to be a person of peace?
- KEEP GOING: Who comes to mind when you think of someone who exemplifies being a person of peace? What makes them stand out?
- KEEP GOING: Read John 14:27 (NLT). What would complete peace look like in your life?
- KEEP GOING: Read 2 Thessalonians 3:16 (NLT). What is keeping you up at night, causing you to experience uncertainty? How much are you allowing anxiety to fill that gap?
- KEEP GOING: Why do you think forgiving others is essential for experiencing true peace?
- LIVE IT OUT: Read Romans 12:18 (NLT). Is there someone in your life you need to forgive or make peace with? What would it look like to take the first step?
- LIVE IT OUT: Read Colossians 3:15 (NLT). Think of one area in your life where you need to invite God’s peace to rule. What’s one practical step you can take this week to trust Him in that situation?
- LIVE IT OUT: Read Hebrews 12:14 (NLT). How could you work for peace with the people in your life this Christmas season? (family, those you live with, work with, go to school with, people in church)