My Notes
Personal Reflection Guide
Find a place where you can be alone with God for some time of reflection. Wait until you have become reasonably quiet in your feelings and thoughts. Take some deep breaths and a walk if you need to in order to become still within. Commit the time to the Lord for His purposes. When you are ready, consider loving others as Jesus has loved you. Think about how Jesus loved you when He died a horrible death for you, even when you did not deserve it. What are your thoughts and feelings regarding this demonstration of His mature love? What impresses you about Jesus’ standard of love? Ask God to help you recall how you have not loved others with mature attitudes, thoughts, or actions. Picture how your relationships would improve by loving them with His sacrificial love. Pray that He will reveal what you can do or give up to experience more of His mature love for others. What is one action God has impressed upon you that He wants to help you take this week to love others more like He does? Close your time by asking Jesus to give you a glimpse of where He might want to take you as you journey into loving others more like He does.
Discussion Questions
For this week, start with reading the Psalm in question 1. For the rest of the group time, consider providing a quiet space for your group to reflect on the questions before answering. Prayerfully consider which of these God is prompting you to respond to.
- Read Psalm 27:1-4 (NLT) aloud.
- DWELL: Where do you find yourself going for peace?
- DWELL: What practices do you employ in order to draw close to Jesus?
- DWELL: How has your view of heaven changed over the years?
- GAZE: When have you become fixated on something, good or bad? How did it affect you and your relationships with others?
- GAZE: Pause and sit in silence as a group. Take a few moments, individually, to inwardly focus on Jesus (allow space for the “awkward silence” in the room). Afterward, share what that experience was like for you.
- GAZE: What can you do to more regularly fix your attention on the things of God, especially when life gets crazy?
- INQUIRE: What do you need most from Jesus right now?
- INQUIRE: If there was one area of your heart you wish could change, what would it be?
- INQUIRE: Read Mark 10:51 (NLT). Spend some time in quiet prayer right now. Ask Jesus for what you want or need. Keep it personal (about you) and not about external circumstances (like politics, etc.).