My Notes
Personal Reflection Guide
Spend a few moments in silence, allowing your thoughts and feelings to become calm. Take a minute to create a list of all the ways God has blessed you, or been there for you, lately. If you happen to find yourself in a difficult season, press in and ask God to help you see previous moments in your life where his presence has been felt. Go over your list of memories, thanking him for these. As you practice this exercise of remembering, thank God for his continual love for you, and for Jesus’ sacrifice for you on the cross. Ask God to fill your heart with gratitude as you live in the reality of the cross, and its beautiful message that we are loved as we are, and don’t have to strive for, or earn anything. Ask him to help you remember these facts as you look ahead at your future, knowing that God is by your side, always.
Discussion Questions
- LEADER’S NOTE: Take the first 5-10 minutes of group time to have everyone do the Personal Reflection Guide (linked on the sermon notes). You may want to set a timer, play some soft music, etc. Once you notice people finishing up, transition to group discussion time with a short prayer, then open by asking people to share what that experience was like, if they feel comfortable.
- REAL WITH SELF: Read Romans 6:6 (NLT). What does the death and sacrifice of Jesus mean for you personally? How do you process God’s grace for you on the cross as you consider the sins that can often trip us up?
- REAL WITH GOD: If real life comes through death, is there anything in your life that is dying at the moment (or something in your life that needs to die)? What might the “life” be that God has for you on the other side of this experience?
- REAL WITH GOD: What does a practice of gratitude look like for you? As you practice gratitude, how does your outlook change? How could you be more intentional about focusing on God’s goodness?
- REAL WITH OTHERS: Recall a time in your life when someone gave of themselves sacrificially to you. What did they do, and what was that experience like for you?
- TAKE ACTION: Read John 13:35 (NLT). When have you seen Christian community act as a witness of the goodness of God? What steps can you take this week to increase unity among your friends, coworkers, or family?