How We Love

3 Simon Peter said, “I’m going fishing.”
“We’ll come, too,” they all said. So they went out in the boat, but they caught nothing all night.
4 At dawn Jesus was standing on the beach, but the disciples couldn’t see who he was. 5 He called out, “Fellows,[a] have you caught any fish?”
“No,” they replied.
6 Then he said, “Throw out your net on the right-hand side of the boat, and you’ll get some!” So they did, and they couldn’t haul in the net because there were so many fish in it.
7 Then the disciple Jesus loved said to Peter, “It’s the Lord!” When Simon Peter heard that it was the Lord, he put on his tunic (for he had stripped for work), jumped into the water, and headed to shore. 8 The others stayed with the boat and pulled the loaded net to the shore, for they were only about a hundred yards[b] from shore. 9 When they got there, they found breakfast waiting for them—fish cooking over a charcoal fire, and some bread.
10 “Bring some of the fish you’ve just caught,” Jesus said. 11 So Simon Peter went aboard and dragged the net to the shore. There were 153 large fish, and yet the net hadn’t torn.
12 “Now come and have some breakfast!” Jesus said. None of the disciples dared to ask him, “Who are you?” They knew it was the Lord. 13 Then Jesus served them the bread and the fish. 14 This was the third time Jesus had appeared to his disciples since he had been raised from the dead.
15 After breakfast Jesus asked Simon Peter, “Simon son of John, do you love me more than these?[c]”
“Yes, Lord,” Peter replied, “you know I love you.”
“Then feed my lambs,” Jesus told him.
16 Jesus repeated the question: “Simon son of John, do you love me?”
“Yes, Lord,” Peter said, “you know I love you.”
“Then take care of my sheep,” Jesus said.
17 A third time he asked him, “Simon son of John, do you love me?”
Peter was hurt that Jesus asked the question a third time. He said, “Lord, you know everything. You know that I love you.”
Jesus said, “Then feed my sheep. JOHN 21:3-17

We love Jesus by serving his church

So guard yourselves and God’s people. Feed and shepherd God’s flock—his church, purchased with his own blood—over which the Holy Spirit has appointed you as elders. ACTS 20:28 NLT
Christ is also the head of the church, which is his body. COLOSSIANS 1:18 NLT

Serving means I focus on my part, not on other people

18 “I tell you the truth, when you were young, you were able to do as you liked; you dressed yourself and went wherever you wanted to go. But when you are old, you will stretch out your hands, and others[a] will dress you and take you where you don’t want to go.” 19 Jesus said this to let him know by what kind of death he would glorify God. Then Jesus told him, “Follow me.”
20 Peter turned around and saw behind them the disciple Jesus loved—the one who had leaned over to Jesus during supper and asked, “Lord, who will betray you?” 21 Peter asked Jesus, “What about him, Lord?” JOHN 21:18-21 NLT

My service should reflect my heart and not my guilt

God has given me the responsibility of serving his church. COLOSSIANS 1:25 NLT
Care for the flock that God has entrusted to you. Watch over it willingly, not grudgingly—not for what you will get out of it, but because you are eager to serve God. Don’t lord it over the people assigned to your care, but lead them by your own good example. And when the Great Shepherd appears, you will receive a crown of never-ending glory and honor. 1 PETER 2-4 NLT

Community Group Discussion Guide

  1. How do you feel when you think you’ve let Jesus down?
  2. How did it make you feel that Jesus recreated the situation with the charcoal fire, and asked Peter not if he knew him, but if he loved him?
  3. Why do you think love and service are so closely linked for Jesus?
  4. When has your service been distracted by what someone else was or wasn’t doing? How has that caused you to be derailed in your service?
  5. What would it look like for you to serve Jesus at Sandals Church from a place of love and not guilt?
  6. How does it make you feel to know that Jesus feels loved by you when you serve his church?

Group/Personal Reflection Guide

Create a quiet space where you can spend some time in prayer, thanking God for the many people who serve Sandals Church. Focus your prayers on thanking God for all the people, both staff and especially volunteers, who make church happen for you. See them serving others. Who do you see? What are they doing? Now imagine those you don’t see. Thank God for them as well. Finally, be aware of what happens in you as you focus your prayers on being thankful.

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