My Notes
Personal Reflection Guide
Find a place where you can become quiet in your thoughts and emotions. Take some deep breaths, and ask God to help calm you at a deep level. Go for a walk If you think this will help. When you are ready, pray that God will guide you during this time with Him. Read Psalm 139:23-24 (NLT). Ask God to search your heart and reveal any specific sin in your life that He wants you to fight against. What thoughts and feelings surface as you reflect on the statement, “I must kill sin or sin will kill me.” Reach out in prayer to Jesus for His power and guidance in putting this sin to death. Is there a temptation you will need to say “No” to and flee from? Ask Him to help you imagine how killing this sin will enable your life to be better, and help you to live out His mission for you. What is a significant step you sense that Jesus is leading you to take to fight against sin and temptation? Take action this week. Ask Him to help you determine what short-term inconveniences and pain you can expect to endure in gaining victory and accomplishing His purpose for you. Ask Him to help you see that His mission is worth suffering for? Reflect on Jesus’ devotion to us and how your life could be more devoted to Him. Thank Jesus for the merciful and gracious help that He will give you in continually resisting temptation and pursuing righteousness.
Discussion Questions
Is your group a safe space for people to be real with ourselves, God and others? Review these Ground Rules (sandalschurch.com/groundrules) with your group before discussing the questions.
For our Matthew series, we’re offering a couple options for how to discuss the sermon and Scripture. Choose option A or B to guide your group’s discussion time.
(A) The R.E.A.L. Bible Study Method:
- Read the Passage. Start by reading Matthew 4:1-11 (NLT) out loud.
- Explore the Theme. What is the main point or theme of the passage? What does this passage reveal about God and/or humanity?
- Ask God. How do we apply this passage to our lives today? How might God be encouraging or challenging you?
- Live It Out. What prayerful and specific action will you take based on this passage?
(B) Choose a couple of questions from each section below to discuss as a group:
- START HERE: Have you ever done an intentional fast? What was that experience like and what was revealed to you?
- START HERE: What are you pursuing that’s worth suffering for?
- START HERE: How have you seen sin drag people down?
- KEEP GOING: Read Matthew 4:1-11 (NLT). How does Jesus encourage us to resist temptation?
- KEEP GOING: What lies does the enemy try to make you believe?
- KEEP GOING: What temptation have you said “no” to in the past? How did that change you?
- KEEP GOING: Read Colossians 3:5 (NLT). How do we put sin to death in our life? How is that going for you?
- KEEP GOING: What personal temptations do you struggle with the most today? (As each person shares, the group should listen with compassion and pray for God’s supernatural help in their area of struggle. This is not the time to offer quick suggestions.)
- LIVE IT OUT: What could your life look like if you continually pursue Jesus and resist temptation?
- LIVE IT OUT: What steps can you take this week to strengthen your spiritual discipline (prayer, fasting, memorizing Scripture, etc.) to resist temptation?